Ratna Sansar Shrestha
The practice within your family has evolved with time and due to necessity into a convention which brings together all 5 brothers together. I am glad you guys are keeping it up. In my case too something similar happens. Due to space constraint (and various other reasons) we three brothers and our parents (who live in a house next door to mine) live apart from each other (one brother is abroad in New Zealand along with his family and youngest one is in Finland alone). However, all of us (except for ones abroad) assemble at our parents’ place to celebrate Kuchhibhoya through till Swan Salegu during Mohani. We organize Nakhatya also together. Same thing happens during other festivals too I, unfortunately, know of some brothers, who don’t come together even for Mohani after having been separated.